Monthly Archives: May 2009

Dancing through the Sidebar

May 31, 2009
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There are only two new articles in the sidebar this week, but they are important ones.  Comment on either of them – or any other article of interest to this forum that we missed. RIP Truman Madsen Elder and Sister Nelson and others attacked in Africa

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The consumer model of religion — A look at a BCC post

May 30, 2009
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I was reading BCC the other day, and I came across this post that just seemed like this tremendous threat to me. I know John C had nothing in mind and really, I’m just writing this for the melodrama, but as an ex-mormon atheist, it seemed to hit close to home. John just had it out for those militant atheists, but I guess they do enough to deserve some of it. I wanted to make a qualification and…perhaps…a defense…of what he lambastes as a “consumer model” of religion…especially since recently on my blog, I’ve been talking about the need...

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Intellectualism and Faith: A Would-Be Marriage!

May 29, 2009
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Intellectualism and Faith:  A Would-Be Marriage!

It is easy to think yourself out of a testimony.  It’s as simple as saying “well I can’t prove God exists, or doesn’t exist, therefore I am agnostic.”   Today’s guest post is by jmb275.

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Is Mormon Matters Balanced?

May 28, 2009
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Over the last week, we’ve received quite a few critical comments, ranging from a pro-mormon commenter about “another blog better left unwritten” to an anti-mormon’s attack on LDS church as “the Devil’s brother of Mormonism“.  When I was invited to be a blogger here at MM, the invitation included the idea that I was invited to contribute to the ‘general tenor of MM and the “faithful but analytical/critical” parameters we try to maintain.’

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Women are from Venus, Men are from Kolob

May 27, 2009
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Women are from Venus, Men are from Kolob

Based on my experience, I would guess that the majority of LDS women under age 65 would say that polygamy is NOT an eternal principle and that it doesn’t require any earthly worrying as a result.  While the men are probably not worrying about it (although any of them who are married to me should think twice about expecting additional wives in the future), my impression is that a higher percentage of them believe it is an eternal principle that will be practiced long term.

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CA Supreme Court Upholds Prop 8; Gay Couples Remain Married

May 26, 2009
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The link to the article summarizing the CA Supreme Court decision is in the sidebar to the left.  In summary, the court allowed Prop 8 to stand (keeping marriage in CA defined as being between a woman and a man) but also allowed all homosexual couples married prior to its passage to retain their married status.

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Can Love Be A Bad Thing?

May 26, 2009
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Can Love Be A Bad Thing?

The following must not be interpreted as petition to the Church. It’s simply a summary of some thoughts I have had that I would like to hear other perspectives on. Criticisms are welcome, but let’s keep it respectful, compassionate, and understanding.   This post isn’t about marriage. It isn’t about sex.

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Please Respect the Rules of Common Decency

May 25, 2009
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This is an administrative post that is irrelevant to most of you.  For that, I apologize.  However, we have had a surge recently in comments left by dedicated anti-Mormon activists – comments that have NOTHING to do with the posts on which they appear and that contain NOTHING constructive or enlightening. We also have had a few comments by believing members that have come perilously close to crossing the lines of common decency, and one in particular that crossed those lines.

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Adversity as a form of the love of God

May 25, 2009
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Adversity as a form of the love of God

“For whom the Lord loveth, he chaseneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.”  (Hebrews 12:6; 6-8, 11)”

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A Memorial Day Jack Mormon

May 25, 2009
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With Memorial Day upon us, I wanted to highlight a person that people know a little about, Alexander Doniphan, who was known as one of the first “Jack Mormons.”  Michael Quinn’s book The Mormon Hierarchy: Origins of Power talks about many incidents which led to the “extermination order” by Missouri Governor Boggs.  Doniphan served in the 1838 Mormon War of Missouri, as well as the Mexican-American War in 1846-7.

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Dancing through the Sidebar

May 24, 2009
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Comment on any of the following articles – or anything else from the sidebar – or any other article of interest to this forum that we missed. … Demolition … Obedience Happiness is Being Old, Male and Republican The WRONG Way to Die!! Did We Mormons Baptize Your Deceased Loved One?  I Can Help. Do You Have Swine Flu? The Geeks Will Inherit!

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Our Soldiers Need FAR MORE Than Tribute

May 24, 2009
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This post is from S.Faux: On this upcoming Memorial Day it will be easy to post flags outside our homes and then just enjoy the BBQ. But there are very helpful things we can do, ranging from just a little effort to a lot. The web page on “Citizen Support” by the Community Relations section of the U.S. Department of Defense lists a variety of strong suggestions, such as donations or volunteer work at homes for disabled vets, gift certificates, care packages, and many other possibilities. One easy step to take would be to log onto the web pages...

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Bloggernacle Personality Survey

May 23, 2009
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The bloggernacle seems to attract a specific subset of Mormon culture, and as a result, opinions and comments are often different from those we hear expressed at church.  One reason for this could be that some personality types thrive in organizations while others are prone to be disenfranchised.  A popular metric to determine personality type is the Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) or the simplified version of this, the Kiersey Temperament Sorter.  These psychometrics are based on the psychology of Carl Jung.  Many have already taken this instrument and know their MBTI type or their Kiersey Temperament.  If not, you...

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Best and Worst of Mormonism: Quotes!

May 22, 2009
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A Zen Buddhist/Freemason friend of mine has put together some great posts of “Best and Worst Bible Verses.” I have been trying to convince him to make the series into one of those daily calendars. Would it not be great to wake up in the morning and read: “Happy shall they be who seize your infants and dashes them against the rocks!” (Psalms 137:9)?

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Good Man Gone

May 21, 2009
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A week ago, I attended the viewing and funeral of a man in our stake who died of an unexpected heart attack.  He was in his 50′s, had just been to the doctor and been pronounced fit as a fiddle, was losing weight and feeling great. He was the Bishop of his ward, and his wife had been cancer free for just over a year.  His son flew home for the weekend, after which he returned to finish his mission.

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Freedom of Religion vs. Death

May 20, 2009
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Some of you may be following the story of Colleen Hauser and her 13 year-old son, Daniel, who has Hodgkin’s lymphoma, and needs chemotherapy in order to survive.

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What’s My Age Again?

May 20, 2009
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Today’s guest post is from Bishop Mike Young of the Spanish Ford 401st Ward.   He writes:  I was reading Mark Twain‘s, “Captain Stormfield’s Visit to Heaven,” the other day, and it brought up some questions about the afterlife that were thought-provoking. You can read this short story online here.

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MM Poll: Your Favorite Scriptures

May 19, 2009
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Mormon Matters has installed a new polling feature, so  thought I’d get the ball rolling with a fairly simple one, so here goes.

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The Problem with Tolerance

May 19, 2009
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The church has a history of high level leaders making sweeping pronouncements that are later deemed incorrect, speculative, or unauthorized, yet in each case, church leaders are reluctant to make public correction of those presumptions.  This tolerance sometimes results in dogmatic voices flourishing, drowning out those same tolerant voices that have graciously granted them access to the open mic.

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My Perspective on Polygamy

May 17, 2009
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My Perspective on Polygamy

I have long avoided talking about polygamy on my blog.  It is a source of tremendous discomfort for me, but it keeps coming up, so I want to give my impressions about this early practice in Mormonism, as well as my beliefs and reconciliations.

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