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	<title>Comments on: EQ to HPG:  Rites of Passage</title>
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		<title>By: Course Correction</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-159757</link>
		<dc:creator>Course Correction</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 17:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An analogy of the social structure of the priesthood might be if women&#039;s auxilliary positions had hierarchal status--that is, if Primary positions were seen as stepping stones to callings in YW and YW positions seen as the entry to RS callings--but eventually everyone aged into RS.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An analogy of the social structure of the priesthood might be if women&#8217;s auxilliary positions had hierarchal status&#8211;that is, if Primary positions were seen as stepping stones to callings in YW and YW positions seen as the entry to RS callings&#8211;but eventually everyone aged into RS.</p>
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		<title>By: Iturea</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-125898</link>
		<dc:creator>Iturea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David, don&#039;t sweat it brother!  You are right that &quot;knowing&quot; has a lot to do with whom the local leadership calls.  Is this bad though?  Is the Lord going to tell the Stake President “no” about his pick of a new bishop or high councilor when the person he picked is ready, willing and worthy?  Probably not.  Does that mean that so and so not picked couldn&#039;t have performed just as good?  Not at all!  The lesson here is, lift where you stand… (A reference to a good talk by President Uchtdorf).  You were picked to serve in your current calling the same way.  The bishop knew you and went before the Lord to get his approval.  There were probably many others who could have done just as well as you but you were chosen by the bishop and presented to the Lord.  Remember, whether it is by the voice of the servants of the Lord or the Lord himself, it is the same.  That doctrine is found in the Doctrine and Covenants.  The fibers of the church are just as necessary as the ropes that strengthen it.  While the rope is in the forefront – without the fibers, the ropes would not be rope!  The Lord is no respecter of persons.  His exaltation is the same for faithful primary instructors as it is for faithful apostles.  It is not about what your calling is, it is about what you do in your calling(s) that matter to the Lord.  You have to ask yourself this question.  In whom do you serve?  God or Man?  Be grateful that you don’t have to work as hard as a Bishop day in and day out to be faithful!  The greatest mystery of God is how a door greater at church who magnifies his / her calling and has no other church responsibility, but is faithful in keeping the commandments of the Lord to the end, obtains the same reward in heaven as the Savior himself, exaltation!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, don&#8217;t sweat it brother!  You are right that &#8220;knowing&#8221; has a lot to do with whom the local leadership calls.  Is this bad though?  Is the Lord going to tell the Stake President “no” about his pick of a new bishop or high councilor when the person he picked is ready, willing and worthy?  Probably not.  Does that mean that so and so not picked couldn&#8217;t have performed just as good?  Not at all!  The lesson here is, lift where you stand… (A reference to a good talk by President Uchtdorf).  You were picked to serve in your current calling the same way.  The bishop knew you and went before the Lord to get his approval.  There were probably many others who could have done just as well as you but you were chosen by the bishop and presented to the Lord.  Remember, whether it is by the voice of the servants of the Lord or the Lord himself, it is the same.  That doctrine is found in the Doctrine and Covenants.  The fibers of the church are just as necessary as the ropes that strengthen it.  While the rope is in the forefront – without the fibers, the ropes would not be rope!  The Lord is no respecter of persons.  His exaltation is the same for faithful primary instructors as it is for faithful apostles.  It is not about what your calling is, it is about what you do in your calling(s) that matter to the Lord.  You have to ask yourself this question.  In whom do you serve?  God or Man?  Be grateful that you don’t have to work as hard as a Bishop day in and day out to be faithful!  The greatest mystery of God is how a door greater at church who magnifies his / her calling and has no other church responsibility, but is faithful in keeping the commandments of the Lord to the end, obtains the same reward in heaven as the Savior himself, exaltation!</p>
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		<title>By: ji</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-125873</link>
		<dc:creator>ji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 07:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something we sometimes fail to consider is that the stake president is the president of the stake high priests quorum, and the elders quorum presidents report to him (not to the bishops).  The Melchizedek Priesthood is organized at the stake level, and the stake is a Melchizedek Priesthood unit.  The stake president presides over the high priests quorum and calls presidents from among the elders for the several elders quorums in the stake.  Into recent history, elders quorums did not follow ward boundaries -- an elders quorum might cover one-and-a-half wards, and another elders quorum might cover two-and-a-half wards, for example, in a stake with four wards (and only two elders quorums).  In those days, elders quorums were organized based on 96 members.  But the brethren made a reasonable decision that elders quorum boundaries should mirror ward boundaries -- makes things easier for correlation -- but the problem with this approach is that we have lost the idea that an elders quorum is a stake organization; rather (and unfortunately) it is largely seen as a ward organization.

Similarly, the ward is an Aaronic Priesthood organization, and the bishop is president of the priests quorum, and he calls teachers and deacons quorum presidents from among those quorums.

The theoretical model is really pretty -- Melchizedek Priesthood is organized and functions at the stake level and the stake president is president of the high priests quorum -- Aaronic Priesthood is organized and functions at the ward level and the bishop is president of the priests quorum.  

But just as some stake presidents, under the press of other duties, are not able to magnify their assignments in leading the work of the Melchizedek Priesthood in general and their high priests quorums in particular, some bishops, under a similar press, are unable to magnify their assignments in leading the Aaronic Priesthood in general and their priests quorum in particular.

To some extent, the importance of and focus on priesthood in leading the church at the local level has been diminished over time.  A return to these principles might obviate the premise of the original posting and reinvigorate the Melchizedek and Aaronic Priesthood quorums at the local level.  You see, priesthood groups at the local level are largely social groupings -- the priesthood quorums do not carry the weight of accomplishing the mission of the church -- the priesthood quorums are instead only responsible for teaching lessons to occupy the time and organizing service projects from time to time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something we sometimes fail to consider is that the stake president is the president of the stake high priests quorum, and the elders quorum presidents report to him (not to the bishops).  The Melchizedek Priesthood is organized at the stake level, and the stake is a Melchizedek Priesthood unit.  The stake president presides over the high priests quorum and calls presidents from among the elders for the several elders quorums in the stake.  Into recent history, elders quorums did not follow ward boundaries &#8212; an elders quorum might cover one-and-a-half wards, and another elders quorum might cover two-and-a-half wards, for example, in a stake with four wards (and only two elders quorums).  In those days, elders quorums were organized based on 96 members.  But the brethren made a reasonable decision that elders quorum boundaries should mirror ward boundaries &#8212; makes things easier for correlation &#8212; but the problem with this approach is that we have lost the idea that an elders quorum is a stake organization; rather (and unfortunately) it is largely seen as a ward organization.</p>
<p>Similarly, the ward is an Aaronic Priesthood organization, and the bishop is president of the priests quorum, and he calls teachers and deacons quorum presidents from among those quorums.</p>
<p>The theoretical model is really pretty &#8212; Melchizedek Priesthood is organized and functions at the stake level and the stake president is president of the high priests quorum &#8212; Aaronic Priesthood is organized and functions at the ward level and the bishop is president of the priests quorum.  </p>
<p>But just as some stake presidents, under the press of other duties, are not able to magnify their assignments in leading the work of the Melchizedek Priesthood in general and their high priests quorums in particular, some bishops, under a similar press, are unable to magnify their assignments in leading the Aaronic Priesthood in general and their priests quorum in particular.</p>
<p>To some extent, the importance of and focus on priesthood in leading the church at the local level has been diminished over time.  A return to these principles might obviate the premise of the original posting and reinvigorate the Melchizedek and Aaronic Priesthood quorums at the local level.  You see, priesthood groups at the local level are largely social groupings &#8212; the priesthood quorums do not carry the weight of accomplishing the mission of the church &#8212; the priesthood quorums are instead only responsible for teaching lessons to occupy the time and organizing service projects from time to time.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 04:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The HP advancement system is demoralizing and archaic. I have watched younger men advance past me within it to leadership callings and tried to convince myself that it is guided by &#039;inspiration&#039; and not favoritism but it is simply not true. It has more to do with your last name, and the 3 P&#039;s (pedigree, personality, and peers). It is truly who you know and how well. As a faithful full tithing payer, married in the temple, have never denied any opportunity to serve; I know that my lack of family in the church has a huge role to play. I was a convert in a very old ward at age 16. Now at 46 it is clear to me that I will never become anything more than my current calling of ward clerk. It would be simply a &#039;sympathy calling&#039; at this point. So I have decided not to attend elders quorum anymore because the increasing age gap is becoming obscene; I&#039;m 10 years older than the next oldest brother. This has caused me thoughts of inactivity, depression, feelings of unworthiness, and feelings of being a failure to my family and my Father in heaven. THIS IS NOT the Lord&#039;s plan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The HP advancement system is demoralizing and archaic. I have watched younger men advance past me within it to leadership callings and tried to convince myself that it is guided by &#8216;inspiration&#8217; and not favoritism but it is simply not true. It has more to do with your last name, and the 3 P&#8217;s (pedigree, personality, and peers). It is truly who you know and how well. As a faithful full tithing payer, married in the temple, have never denied any opportunity to serve; I know that my lack of family in the church has a huge role to play. I was a convert in a very old ward at age 16. Now at 46 it is clear to me that I will never become anything more than my current calling of ward clerk. It would be simply a &#8216;sympathy calling&#8217; at this point. So I have decided not to attend elders quorum anymore because the increasing age gap is becoming obscene; I&#8217;m 10 years older than the next oldest brother. This has caused me thoughts of inactivity, depression, feelings of unworthiness, and feelings of being a failure to my family and my Father in heaven. THIS IS NOT the Lord&#8217;s plan.</p>
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		<title>By: Iturea</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-125510</link>
		<dc:creator>Iturea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lessons on the first Sunday of the month are a time when the President or Leader of a particular quorum / auxiliary or group can give instruction to his or her group pertaining the responsibilities and duties that are unique to that group.  High Priests are generally a more experience bunch when it pertains to the Priesthood and use of it, which would affect the way the discussions on this Sunday play out.  They also play a different role in the use of the Melchizedek Priesthood so they will get different instruction.  For example, the High Priest group leads out in temple work and all things pertaining to this.  This in and of itself could make their first Sunday instruction different than what is heard in an Elder’s Quorum.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lessons on the first Sunday of the month are a time when the President or Leader of a particular quorum / auxiliary or group can give instruction to his or her group pertaining the responsibilities and duties that are unique to that group.  High Priests are generally a more experience bunch when it pertains to the Priesthood and use of it, which would affect the way the discussions on this Sunday play out.  They also play a different role in the use of the Melchizedek Priesthood so they will get different instruction.  For example, the High Priest group leads out in temple work and all things pertaining to this.  This in and of itself could make their first Sunday instruction different than what is heard in an Elder’s Quorum.</p>
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		<title>By: kuri</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-125044</link>
		<dc:creator>kuri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:07:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;...High Councils doing most of the work in a ward or stake. &lt;/i&gt;

Well, Rich, you know one of my Stake Presidents used to love to tell this story. He&#039;d say, &quot;When a man has been a Bishop for a few years, he gets tired. They all tell me the same thing. They say, &#039;President, I love the people, I love being a Bishop, but I&#039;m just worn out. I need a rest.&#039; So I say, &#039;What calling would you like if I release you?&#039; And they always say, &#039;I&#039;d like to be on the High Council.&#039;&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8230;High Councils doing most of the work in a ward or stake. </i></p>
<p>Well, Rich, you know one of my Stake Presidents used to love to tell this story. He&#8217;d say, &#8220;When a man has been a Bishop for a few years, he gets tired. They all tell me the same thing. They say, &#8216;President, I love the people, I love being a Bishop, but I&#8217;m just worn out. I need a rest.&#8217; So I say, &#8216;What calling would you like if I release you?&#8217; And they always say, &#8216;I&#8217;d like to be on the High Council.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Rich</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-125031</link>
		<dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 04:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For those who believe that for some reason elders do most of the work while HP sit around and sleep, you are quite delusional. 

For the most part, most of the HP have spent years in Bishoprics or High Councils doing most of the work in a ward or stake.  In addition, HP do the lion share of home teaching, most of the temple assignments, Most of the welfare and DI assignments and the vast majority of family history work. 

It is true that the elders get to be the ward moving service and get to race their pinewood derby cars at the Elders Quorum pinewood derby race but 90 percent of the time, if you want something done from one of the psthd quorums, the HP Quorum is where the work is done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For those who believe that for some reason elders do most of the work while HP sit around and sleep, you are quite delusional. </p>
<p>For the most part, most of the HP have spent years in Bishoprics or High Councils doing most of the work in a ward or stake.  In addition, HP do the lion share of home teaching, most of the temple assignments, Most of the welfare and DI assignments and the vast majority of family history work. </p>
<p>It is true that the elders get to be the ward moving service and get to race their pinewood derby cars at the Elders Quorum pinewood derby race but 90 percent of the time, if you want something done from one of the psthd quorums, the HP Quorum is where the work is done.</p>
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		<title>By: MrQandA</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124990</link>
		<dc:creator>MrQandA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jmb275 #39,

Whether pride causes enmity with God or enmity with God causes pride, I&#039;m not sure!. IMO the definition of Pride is to have a high opinion of ones self / own creation. there are many symptoms of pride obsession, envy, vanity etc, I agree that  unchecked pride is the root of all evil however pride may produce many good things too, ie &quot;pride in ones work&quot;. 

the issues that I have is not your desire to help others, but your insistence that a leadership position is necessary to enable you to enact that assistance, HT, VT &amp; callings give sufficient opportunity to help others if you are desiring further reaching authority then your desires are no longer to help individuals.  jmb275 please understand it is not my intention to pick a fight, I&#039;m mealy defending my general opinion of aspiration.

Hawkgrrrl #40 I appreciate my examples were not sufficient to support my argument, however I was just being a little light hearted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jmb275 #39,</p>
<p>Whether pride causes enmity with God or enmity with God causes pride, I&#8217;m not sure!. IMO the definition of Pride is to have a high opinion of ones self / own creation. there are many symptoms of pride obsession, envy, vanity etc, I agree that  unchecked pride is the root of all evil however pride may produce many good things too, ie &#8220;pride in ones work&#8221;. </p>
<p>the issues that I have is not your desire to help others, but your insistence that a leadership position is necessary to enable you to enact that assistance, HT, VT &amp; callings give sufficient opportunity to help others if you are desiring further reaching authority then your desires are no longer to help individuals.  jmb275 please understand it is not my intention to pick a fight, I&#8217;m mealy defending my general opinion of aspiration.</p>
<p>Hawkgrrrl #40 I appreciate my examples were not sufficient to support my argument, however I was just being a little light hearted.</p>
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		<title>By: Velska</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124827</link>
		<dc:creator>Velska</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 21:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, there is no excuse really to think about High Priesthood as &lt;strong&gt;rank&lt;/strong&gt;. It is either: a requirement for some callings, as per a revelation included in the Standard Works; or it is a way to organize MP into two groups.

I&#039;ve been in a ward, branch and a mission branch, where the HP do not have their own group meetings within the ward &#8212; except some times when they need to accomplish something as a group, and they need to have their own meeting to plan and organize that.

I think age-based segregation is wrong. Elderly men should have younger men to remind them that the world moves on, whether they move with it or not; the younger men need to learn the wisdom of experience. You get the bickering about doctrinal nuances, because elderly men tend to be so fixated on some obscure point that has become to them a &quot;gospel hobby&quot; and they think they know absolutely everything about it. To fix the latter, see the first part of the second sentence.

I have the &quot;Blue Book&quot;, and I have read it, too. My calling requires that I know it, and I&#039;m a bit of a perfectionist. From the handbook, I find absolutely no basis for having two MP groups meet, unless there are too many active male adults to have them meet as one group. I mean as a &quot;normal&quot; meetings routine; if there&#039;s a special reason, then there is that to consider. I suspect often the segregation happens because that&#039;s how it&#039;s always been done. 

Often the problems that people have with what happens in reality are not based on &quot;faulty&quot; Church policy, but simply the fact that people quite often are oblivious to what the handbook teaches. Then there&#039;s inspiration, which actually does happen; perhaps not as often as it should, but it still does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, there is no excuse really to think about High Priesthood as <strong>rank</strong>. It is either: a requirement for some callings, as per a revelation included in the Standard Works; or it is a way to organize MP into two groups.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been in a ward, branch and a mission branch, where the HP do not have their own group meetings within the ward &mdash; except some times when they need to accomplish something as a group, and they need to have their own meeting to plan and organize that.</p>
<p>I think age-based segregation is wrong. Elderly men should have younger men to remind them that the world moves on, whether they move with it or not; the younger men need to learn the wisdom of experience. You get the bickering about doctrinal nuances, because elderly men tend to be so fixated on some obscure point that has become to them a &#8220;gospel hobby&#8221; and they think they know absolutely everything about it. To fix the latter, see the first part of the second sentence.</p>
<p>I have the &#8220;Blue Book&#8221;, and I have read it, too. My calling requires that I know it, and I&#8217;m a bit of a perfectionist. From the handbook, I find absolutely no basis for having two MP groups meet, unless there are too many active male adults to have them meet as one group. I mean as a &#8220;normal&#8221; meetings routine; if there&#8217;s a special reason, then there is that to consider. I suspect often the segregation happens because that&#8217;s how it&#8217;s always been done. </p>
<p>Often the problems that people have with what happens in reality are not based on &#8220;faulty&#8221; Church policy, but simply the fact that people quite often are oblivious to what the handbook teaches. Then there&#8217;s inspiration, which actually does happen; perhaps not as often as it should, but it still does.</p>
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		<title>By: Hawkgrrrl</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124504</link>
		<dc:creator>Hawkgrrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MQA - &quot;generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &amp; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways, (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the “prettiest” hat’s or put on the most “spiritual” voice), Men are less subtle.&quot;  I think your female examples of &#039;pride&#039; are actually of vanity.  Also, women quit wearing &quot;pretty hats&quot; decades ago.  Where are these hat war weddings of which you speak?  Now, I grant you the &quot;spiritual&quot; voice is alive and well in Mormon culture.  It can be quite irritating, but I think it&#039;s mostly a put on to fit in or to create a specific type of image.  It&#039;s not really competitive (women trying to top other women) so much as it is a smiling mask to fit in culturally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MQA &#8211; &#8220;generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &#038; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways, (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the “prettiest” hat’s or put on the most “spiritual” voice), Men are less subtle.&#8221;  I think your female examples of &#8216;pride&#8217; are actually of vanity.  Also, women quit wearing &#8220;pretty hats&#8221; decades ago.  Where are these hat war weddings of which you speak?  Now, I grant you the &#8220;spiritual&#8221; voice is alive and well in Mormon culture.  It can be quite irritating, but I think it&#8217;s mostly a put on to fit in or to create a specific type of image.  It&#8217;s not really competitive (women trying to top other women) so much as it is a smiling mask to fit in culturally.</p>
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		<title>By: jmb275</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124488</link>
		<dc:creator>jmb275</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 17:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;jmb275 #34 I don’t necessarily believe that pride = malicious or pride = bad, I would still defend my blanket statement, there are exceptions of course however I do not see your experience (as you explained it) being one of those. Pride is a natural course of human existence it is how pride is managed that is a key issue, your comments have given me good cause to think.

generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &amp; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways, (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the “prettiest” hat’s or put on the most “spiritual” voice), Men are less subtle.
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Hmmm, maybe you need to expound some more because I&#039;m not following.  We&#039;re going off on a tangent though here.  How do you define pride?  If pride != malicious or pride != bad, then why did you bring it up in a negative context (begrudging the establishment, or &quot;deserving&quot; a calling&quot;)?

I am somewhat playing into the orthodox Mormon version of pride as defined by ETB.  While I don&#039;t necessarily believe that personally (I probably am closer to your view), it is the standard way to look at it.
Pride := enmity with God
Pride ==&gt; root of all evil
A person whose desire is to help others by becoming a leader does not seem to mesh with those definitions IMHO.

Please explain.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>jmb275 #34 I don’t necessarily believe that pride = malicious or pride = bad, I would still defend my blanket statement, there are exceptions of course however I do not see your experience (as you explained it) being one of those. Pride is a natural course of human existence it is how pride is managed that is a key issue, your comments have given me good cause to think.</p>
<p>generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &amp; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways, (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the “prettiest” hat’s or put on the most “spiritual” voice), Men are less subtle.
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<p>Hmmm, maybe you need to expound some more because I&#8217;m not following.  We&#8217;re going off on a tangent though here.  How do you define pride?  If pride != malicious or pride != bad, then why did you bring it up in a negative context (begrudging the establishment, or &#8220;deserving&#8221; a calling&#8221;)?</p>
<p>I am somewhat playing into the orthodox Mormon version of pride as defined by ETB.  While I don&#8217;t necessarily believe that personally (I probably am closer to your view), it is the standard way to look at it.<br />
Pride := enmity with God<br />
Pride ==&gt; root of all evil<br />
A person whose desire is to help others by becoming a leader does not seem to mesh with those definitions IMHO.</p>
<p>Please explain.</p>
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		<title>By: Rigel Hawthorne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rigel Hawthorne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always lamented the fact that I had to home teach the people on my dad&#039;s beat when I was a kid.  He was a HP and always made a point of volunteering to home teach the widows, who were lonely, liked to talk and needed their lawns mowed.  I would have rather been going to the families with kids.  Now, once again I&#039;m home teaching people aged 60 to 90.  I guess my past service has helped prepare me for this.  

I know my wife felt that our RS was intimidatingly geriatric.  The Bishop, however, has reorganized the auxillaries to create younger RS leadership, so there are more younger women attending RS these days.

As to the Elders doing all the work, I know our HPGL gets tapped for a lot of service in the middle of the week because he is retired, whereas the Elders are at work.  He keeps saying he needs to go back to work so he can get a vacation!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always lamented the fact that I had to home teach the people on my dad&#8217;s beat when I was a kid.  He was a HP and always made a point of volunteering to home teach the widows, who were lonely, liked to talk and needed their lawns mowed.  I would have rather been going to the families with kids.  Now, once again I&#8217;m home teaching people aged 60 to 90.  I guess my past service has helped prepare me for this.  </p>
<p>I know my wife felt that our RS was intimidatingly geriatric.  The Bishop, however, has reorganized the auxillaries to create younger RS leadership, so there are more younger women attending RS these days.</p>
<p>As to the Elders doing all the work, I know our HPGL gets tapped for a lot of service in the middle of the week because he is retired, whereas the Elders are at work.  He keeps saying he needs to go back to work so he can get a vacation!</p>
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		<title>By: Trespassing in Priesthood Meeting &#171; Course Correction</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trespassing in Priesthood Meeting &#171; Course Correction</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the purpose of my visit . Reb led a wide-ranging discussion more or less on the lesson topic. The difference in EQ and HP discussions was equal to the difference between recess and reading groups in elementary school. Possibly the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] the purpose of my visit . Reb led a wide-ranging discussion more or less on the lesson topic. The difference in EQ and HP discussions was equal to the difference between recess and reading groups in elementary school. Possibly the [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The talk in question is Elder Uchdorf&#039;s famous &quot;Seeking for the Crown or the Cave&quot; talk given in the Oct. &#039;08 general conference.  It can be found online here http://www.lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-947-18,00.html (Admin feel free to hyperlink.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The talk in question is Elder Uchdorf&#8217;s famous &#8220;Seeking for the Crown or the Cave&#8221; talk given in the Oct. &#8217;08 general conference.  It can be found online here <a href="http://www.lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-947-18,00.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-947-18,00.html</a> (Admin feel free to hyperlink.)</p>
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		<title>By: MrQandA</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124299</link>
		<dc:creator>MrQandA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 01:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jmb275 #34 I don&#039;t necessarily believe that pride = malicious or pride = bad, I would still defend my blanket statement, there are exceptions of course however I do not see your experience (as you explained it) being one of those. Pride is a natural course of human existence it is how pride is managed that is a key issue, your comments have given me good cause to think. 

generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &amp; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways,  (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the &quot;prettiest&quot; hat&#039;s or put on the most &quot;spiritual&quot; voice), Men are less subtle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jmb275 #34 I don&#8217;t necessarily believe that pride = malicious or pride = bad, I would still defend my blanket statement, there are exceptions of course however I do not see your experience (as you explained it) being one of those. Pride is a natural course of human existence it is how pride is managed that is a key issue, your comments have given me good cause to think. </p>
<p>generally no matter the structure of the organisation, it is human nature to be prideful (both men &amp; women) although we demonstrate it in differing ways,  (some women perhaps wait for weddings to wear the &#8220;prettiest&#8221; hat&#8217;s or put on the most &#8220;spiritual&#8221; voice), Men are less subtle.</p>
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		<title>By: Alan LeBaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alan LeBaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fwiw: Church Handbook of Instructions, (2006) pp40. Brethern are ordained when called to stake presidencies etc but also as determined by the stake president. Ordination as a HP does not have to be associated with a calling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fwiw: Church Handbook of Instructions, (2006) pp40. Brethern are ordained when called to stake presidencies etc but also as determined by the stake president. Ordination as a HP does not have to be associated with a calling.</p>
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		<title>By: jmb275</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124297</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Re #33
Ahh, I see.  I suppose I should read the talk!

Re #32
&lt;blockquote&gt;I believe there is a difference between leadership within the Church &amp; Secular Leadership, one does not necessary lend to the other. I think I’m quite a good leader in my career however I think I’m a rubbish leader in my calling.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Yes, I can agree that one does not necessarily lend itself to the other.  I just don&#039;t like the blanket accusation that those who aspire to leadership in the church are prideful.  Maybe I was prideful, but my motives were more pure than that.  I wanted to help people and thought I could be effective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Re #33<br />
Ahh, I see.  I suppose I should read the talk!</p>
<p>Re #32</p>
<blockquote><p>I believe there is a difference between leadership within the Church &amp; Secular Leadership, one does not necessary lend to the other. I think I’m quite a good leader in my career however I think I’m a rubbish leader in my calling.</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, I can agree that one does not necessarily lend itself to the other.  I just don&#8217;t like the blanket accusation that those who aspire to leadership in the church are prideful.  Maybe I was prideful, but my motives were more pure than that.  I wanted to help people and thought I could be effective.</p>
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		<title>By: Hawkgrrrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hawkgrrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 23:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jmb275 - I should have also been clearer in my recap of that talk.  He wasn&#039;t necessarily saying that the desire to lead was inherently bad, just that some folks used either a desire to lead or a desire to hide to essentially keep from doing anything useful.  IOW, those who desire to lead but who aren&#039;t given the opportunity would twist that into an excuse to subvert existing leadership and to refuse to do callings that are &quot;beneath&quot; their skill level.  Anyway, just paraphrasing a talk in saying that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jmb275 &#8211; I should have also been clearer in my recap of that talk.  He wasn&#8217;t necessarily saying that the desire to lead was inherently bad, just that some folks used either a desire to lead or a desire to hide to essentially keep from doing anything useful.  IOW, those who desire to lead but who aren&#8217;t given the opportunity would twist that into an excuse to subvert existing leadership and to refuse to do callings that are &#8220;beneath&#8221; their skill level.  Anyway, just paraphrasing a talk in saying that.</p>
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		<title>By: MrQandA</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124266</link>
		<dc:creator>MrQandA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 23:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jmb275 # 30 

I believe there is a difference between leadership within the Church &amp; Secular Leadership, one does not necessary lend to the other.  I think I&#039;m quite a good leader in my career however I think I&#039;m a rubbish leader in my calling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jmb275 # 30 </p>
<p>I believe there is a difference between leadership within the Church &amp; Secular Leadership, one does not necessary lend to the other.  I think I&#8217;m quite a good leader in my career however I think I&#8217;m a rubbish leader in my calling.</p>
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		<title>By: Arthur</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124264</link>
		<dc:creator>Arthur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 22:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The major problem- one of the major problems, for there are several- one of the many major problems with governing people is that of whom you get to do it; or rather of whom manages to get people to let them do it to them. 
To summarize: it is a well-known fact that those people who want to rule people are, ipso facto, those least suited to do it. To summarize the summary: anyone who is capable of getting themselves made President should on no account be allowed to do the job.&quot; - Douglas Adams</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The major problem- one of the major problems, for there are several- one of the many major problems with governing people is that of whom you get to do it; or rather of whom manages to get people to let them do it to them.<br />
To summarize: it is a well-known fact that those people who want to rule people are, ipso facto, those least suited to do it. To summarize the summary: anyone who is capable of getting themselves made President should on no account be allowed to do the job.&#8221; &#8211; Douglas Adams</p>
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		<title>By: jmb275</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124254</link>
		<dc:creator>jmb275</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 22:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Hawkgrrrl #13 “those who want to lead, and those who want to hide” this is interesting, I see this as a dichotomy in which both are a result of pride, one who is proud enough to believe that they deserve a “Higher” calling or status the other who desires the status and has been passed over now begrudges the “establishment”.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
See this stereotype rubs me the wrong way.  Before my faith crisis I was one who aspired to callings.  However, this had nothing to do with pride.  It had to do with the fact that I thought I would be a good leader and make a difference.  To me, this is the church equivalent of telling MBA students that their desire to be a business administrator is evil because they surely think they&#039;re better than others.

Some people are natural born leaders, and tend to gravitate towards, even want, opportunities to do what they&#039;re naturally good at.  I fail to see why this falls under the sin of &quot;pride&quot;?  I think what we&#039;re really trying to say is that those who desire to &lt;b&gt;usurp&lt;/b&gt; leadership do it as a result of pride.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Hawkgrrrl #13 “those who want to lead, and those who want to hide” this is interesting, I see this as a dichotomy in which both are a result of pride, one who is proud enough to believe that they deserve a “Higher” calling or status the other who desires the status and has been passed over now begrudges the “establishment”.</p></blockquote>
<p>See this stereotype rubs me the wrong way.  Before my faith crisis I was one who aspired to callings.  However, this had nothing to do with pride.  It had to do with the fact that I thought I would be a good leader and make a difference.  To me, this is the church equivalent of telling MBA students that their desire to be a business administrator is evil because they surely think they&#8217;re better than others.</p>
<p>Some people are natural born leaders, and tend to gravitate towards, even want, opportunities to do what they&#8217;re naturally good at.  I fail to see why this falls under the sin of &#8220;pride&#8221;?  I think what we&#8217;re really trying to say is that those who desire to <b>usurp</b> leadership do it as a result of pride.</p>
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		<title>By: MrQandA</title>
		<link>http://mormonmatters.org/2009/12/16/eq-to-hpg-rites-of-passage/#comment-124251</link>
		<dc:creator>MrQandA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 22:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>26,27,28 - hey I&#039;m not sure I like the tone of this ;) 

I do think that there are gender dynamics here however, there is a key proportion of sisters that would be just as covetous and ambitious. Women create there own forms of hierarchy, men would do this through influence,power,money etc. Women&#039;s status is measured in many others ways. 

My point is: the same dynamics you see within priesthood quorums you will also find within RS (although on a more subtle scale).

The reason why there are more younger sisters being used within the ward is Primary, now I believe more priesthood should be used in Primary and in our ward they are, but there is a key majority of primary callings that are occupied by sisters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>26,27,28 &#8211; hey I&#8217;m not sure I like the tone of this <img src='http://mormonmatters.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I do think that there are gender dynamics here however, there is a key proportion of sisters that would be just as covetous and ambitious. Women create there own forms of hierarchy, men would do this through influence,power,money etc. Women&#8217;s status is measured in many others ways. </p>
<p>My point is: the same dynamics you see within priesthood quorums you will also find within RS (although on a more subtle scale).</p>
<p>The reason why there are more younger sisters being used within the ward is Primary, now I believe more priesthood should be used in Primary and in our ward they are, but there is a key majority of primary callings that are occupied by sisters.</p>
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		<title>By: Hawkgrrrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hawkgrrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 22:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Molly - interesting observation.  So, the RS sisters are busy doing actual stuff, while the men are puttering around with fake emeritus-style &quot;callings&quot; and hierarchy?  Sounds about right to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Molly &#8211; interesting observation.  So, the RS sisters are busy doing actual stuff, while the men are puttering around with fake emeritus-style &#8220;callings&#8221; and hierarchy?  Sounds about right to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Molly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Molly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isn&#039;t it obvious why the women don&#039;t split? Because the Young Relief Society would be barren (at least in my ward) (no pun intended) because the young(er) sisters are ALL in Primary or YW. Or single&#039;s wards. There would be maybe three sisters in the 18- to 40-year range in my ward, and 40 or so in the 60- to 100-range. I think men make great Primary teachers, don&#039;t get me wrong, but in reality it&#039;s mostly women as teachers, presidency, pianist, singing lady, nursery workers, and such. Men aren&#039;t in Priesthood only for YM and ward clerk, but women just can&#039;t go to RS because they are the nurturers (/sarcasm).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t it obvious why the women don&#8217;t split? Because the Young Relief Society would be barren (at least in my ward) (no pun intended) because the young(er) sisters are ALL in Primary or YW. Or single&#8217;s wards. There would be maybe three sisters in the 18- to 40-year range in my ward, and 40 or so in the 60- to 100-range. I think men make great Primary teachers, don&#8217;t get me wrong, but in reality it&#8217;s mostly women as teachers, presidency, pianist, singing lady, nursery workers, and such. Men aren&#8217;t in Priesthood only for YM and ward clerk, but women just can&#8217;t go to RS because they are the nurturers (/sarcasm).</p>
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		<title>By: Hawkgrrrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hawkgrrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 20:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MQA - it could be a byproduct of priesthood leadership &amp; hierarchy because sisters do not have these types of dynamics.  There is no hierarchy to covet.  There used to be a lot more complaints in RS about sisters who felt like they didn&#039;t fit in (e.g. no kids, no spouse, etc.), but that has changed dramatically over the last few years as the lesson manuals have become more gospel-oriented and less specific.  They used to do a lot more lessons about things like parenting and family dynamics.  Not so any more.  That has made a much more unified RS, IMO.  I really don&#039;t see an issue with grandmothers and young single sisters all in there together. It seems to work fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MQA &#8211; it could be a byproduct of priesthood leadership &#038; hierarchy because sisters do not have these types of dynamics.  There is no hierarchy to covet.  There used to be a lot more complaints in RS about sisters who felt like they didn&#8217;t fit in (e.g. no kids, no spouse, etc.), but that has changed dramatically over the last few years as the lesson manuals have become more gospel-oriented and less specific.  They used to do a lot more lessons about things like parenting and family dynamics.  Not so any more.  That has made a much more unified RS, IMO.  I really don&#8217;t see an issue with grandmothers and young single sisters all in there together. It seems to work fine.</p>
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